Is your marriage stuck in “replay mode”?
Do you and your partner keep repeating the same argument, despite your best intentions?
Do repetitive arguments or misunderstandings leave you questioning the very foundation your marriage is built upon?
Have you ever been plagued with doubts about whether you and your partner are truly meant for each other?
WHAT IF YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO FIGURE IT ALL OUT ALONE?
I’m so glad you’re here. Imagine how different it would feel to go from living in doubt to feeling loved and being SO confident that being with your partner is the best decision you’ve ever made. What would change for you?
Over the past 14 + years I’ve had the honor of successfully helping countless parents gain clarity into the powerful forces driving their biggest long-standing arguments.
Soon after I became a mother in 2011, I felt so depleted and spent a huge amount of energy in ‘reactivity’ mode. I was guilt-ridden and ashamed that I wasn’t showing up in my marriage in the ways I knew I was capable of. At the same time, I was chronically sleep deprived, constantly getting sick and desperate for someone to take care of me.
Most importantly I was painfully aware that my marriage was exactly where our children were already starting to learn about what they can expect to experience in close relationships.
So over the past 6 years I developed my own step-by-step framework to help me move through conflict differently - based on my own journey, the professional support I sought out and the most holistic psychological traditions I’m trained in.
And I realized this could be profoundly helpful to other couples with children too.
Since then, although my mate & I still argue sometimes - our arguments don’t escalate as quickly. We recover from them faster and feel even closer afterwards.
It feels amazing to trust that we can handle anything that comes our way. Now instead of feeling stuck during an argument, I can actually be curious about the next thing I need to learn or master.
I fiercely believe you too, can move beyond exhausting power-struggles and get your marriage out of ‘replay mode’.
You can spend less energy rehashing the same arguments & more time feeling truly heard, appreciated and understood in your marriage.
I want to acknowledge you for seeking out opportunities to deepen the love in your relationship, especially if you feel like you’ve been co-parenting roommates for years and you’re afraid your marriage may have lost its luster forever.
the thing is...
When it comes to taking your relationship to the next level, information just isn’t enough. The ongoing support in this program will help you discover and implement the steps you need to take in order to improve your unique relationship.
When it comes to your relationship, have you ever found yourself saying...
"We can't communicate with each other when we are upset, without one of us getting defensive, shutting down, or accusatory.”
"I fear we’re growing apart & we don’t really feel like a couple - just two people raising kids together and I feel like I always have to be the one to patch things up.”
"I want to feel like a couple again. Being kind to me isn’t enough. I could be her sister or her uncle or roommate, and it would feel the same.”
I wholeheartedly believe you can nurture and enjoy a love that is even deeper, more tender and satisfying than it was in the beginning.
You get stuck in exhausting power-struggles, despite your best intentions
You’re harboring resentments towards each other and you’re feeling discouraged, unappreciated or lonely
I know what you're thinking.
Are we just too different to “get” each other?
Will we ever get beyond our differences and disagreements?
Are we destined to feel lonely and misunderstood in this marriage?
And most importantly:
Can we love each other as deeply now as we did in the beginning?
Sync your hearts
A Program For Overstressed Couples
Ready to Re-Ignite The Love in Their Marriage
(even while raising a family)
Going from being frustrated that you’re always "adulting" or taking the high-road to finally trusting that you’re back in a true partnership; even if your partner isn’t quite on board with you yet.
And, knowing how to move past exhausting power-struggles, feelings of resentment, under-appreciation and loneliness and enjoying a love that is even deeper, more tender and satisfying than it was in the beginning.
In this program, I will guide you to implement and practice the 4 Pillars of Conscious Love in your marriage so that you can finally feel deeply heard, appreciated and loved.
Make a decision + commit to nurturing your bond with intention.
Discover your hidden “Love blueprints” from childhood for deeper understanding and connection.
Learn the Skills to Transform Relationship-Pain Into Conscious, Genuine Connection.
Create NEW emotional experiences &
RE-PATTERN your relationship for lasting harmony.
These Pillars will help you create a solid foundation for lasting connection in your marriage, while being completely customizable to you
I will meet you where you’re at, while tailoring the 4 Pillars of Conscious Love to your unique history so you can evolve your connection in exactly the ways that are most satisfying to you.
It's a 6-month minimum commitment to ensure enduring positive shifts that will stay with the you for the rest of your life together.
During our 6 months together, you can expect to:
1. Gain clarity into any subconscious resistance that may be blocking you from wanting to connect more regularly with your partner so you can finally feel motivated and excited to work on your marriage
2. Create a safe zone in your marriage where you can hear each other without shutting-down or getting defensive, and powerfully take a stand for each other’s growth like never before!
3. Find ways to bring up sensitive topics that you and your partner have been avoiding for months because you’ve both been too afraid to “go there.”
4. Create sacred rituals and routines that fiercely protect the boundaries and energy of your relationship, inspire and uplift you.
5. Give and receive more freely so that you feel closer and more playful with your partner than ever before and trust that you’re growing closer rather than apart.
6. Enjoy emotional intimacy and touch in ways you can both look forward to again, instead of feeling like “intimacy” is just another chore on your endless “to-do” list.
Welcome Packet & Orientation Materials to jumpstart your journey.
here is an overview
18 x 60-minute coaching calls to be used during the first 6 months.
Pre and Post session updates to keep you 100% on track and getting results.
Opportunity to record coaching sessions and revisit any coaching at your own convenience to skyrocket your transformation.
Voxer voice/text and email support between sessions via laser coaching for the duration of your program.
WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING
“We got so much more than we expected. Ma’ayan helped us see each other tenderly and vulnerably so that instead of automatically shutting down, attacking or getting defensive, we can now understand each other’s true intentions and be more compassionate.”
What would a loving, connected partnership be worth to you? The kind of marriage where you can give each other the benefit of the doubt, hear each other without shutting-down or getting defensive, and powerfully take a stand for each other’s growth like never before?
What’s the cost of continuing to repeat the same patterns that got you to where you are now?
You have a choice.
In long-term relationships our partners will disappoint, hurt and misunderstand us. There will be a gap between the longed-for ideal lover we imagined and our real, human, imperfect partner. It is crucial that we learn to make room for these disappointments - in order to restore connection and continue to evolve our possibilities in love.
Faced with disappointment we have two choices :
Spiral down the path of control, blame and resentful resignation – we are wired to protest, angrily demand connection, retaliate and/or withdraw when we feel abandoned, helpless, ashamed, or hopeless.
Turn back toward our partner for repair so that connection can be restored – the difficult task of restoring connection in the face of relationship-pain brings with it renewed opportunities to know without a doubt that we are good-enough, we are lovable and loving, and that we can truly count on our relationship to be there for us.
LOVE NOTES FROM PAST CLIENTS
“We can’t possibly express how incredibly life changing our work with Ma’ayan was. It was truly the greatest investment we’ve ever made as a couple, and continues to be the greatest gift we’ve given to ourselves and each other.
Ma’ayan gave us the space to discover the answers we were hoping to find when we made the commitment to complete Ma’ayan’s coaching program. With Ma’ayan’s thoughtful insight & gentle encouragement, we dug deep into our relationship and discovered patterns that we knew we needed help to break.
We came out the other side with an incredibly deep empathy for each other and real, practical tools to change our old patterns rooted in fear and misunderstanding. Ultimately, we learned to more often communicate from a place of genuine love and understanding.
Ma’ayan always knew what we internally already knew but had to discover together—and she helped us get to that point of discovery on our own time, guiding us to understanding the power of surrendering, of letting go of the need to control everything, sharing what we need to be proactive partners, parents and friends.
We always knew we would benefit from marriage counseling or coaching, but we could not have been luckier that the stars aligned to find Ma’ayan’s program. My wife and I continue to use the tools we developed with Ma’ayan in our relationship with each other, our children and throughout our lives.
Again, there are no words that suffice. If you’re even partially considering working with Ma’ayan, please know that if you’re willing to be honest with yourself and with your partner, this will literally change your marriage in ways you can’t imagine."
Are you ready to unlock the full potential of your marriage to become a healing force for self-discovery, and personal growth?
A $1200 VALUE
Receive a complimentary 3-hour kickstart intensive when you sign up within 48 hrs of our clarity call!
Think of this session as your very own Relationship Retreat, where you (or the two of you) will have my personalized guidance and attention so that you can restore and revitalize your connection. What would that be worth to you? This Kickstart session will accelerate your growth and set you up to make the most of our time together. You’ll have an opportunity to address any pressing concerns, and get REAL about what it takes to create your version of a deeply satisfying and inspiring relationship.
Session can be held in-person at my practice or virtually (can be broken up into two 90-minute sessions when held virtually). Lunch for you & your partner is included, when held in person.